Note: The following article contains reference to sexual misconduct that some readers may find distressing. Genetic Sexual Attraction GSA seems to be a real topic of discussion at the moment, with numerous stories of long-lost family members who reunited only to discover an intense sexual attraction, being bandied about all over the place. And another one has emerged today, in the form of an interview by Jezebel. In an initial first-hand piece published by the site, a woman called Natasha described her experience of GSA. Meeting her father aged 19, she ended up engaging in a sexual relationship with him, all the while struggling with the countering emotions of self-loathing and disgust. Natasha didn't grow up with her father, explaining that he actually left while her mum was pregnant.
My parents helped me to lose my virginity
The Story Of A Year-Old Girl Who Loses Her Virginity To Her Mother’s Boyfriend – ThinkProgress
When, at age 16, I finally lost my virginity , my only regret was that it hadn't happened sooner. Now, 17 years later, I still remember that night fondly. But my experience losing my virginity wasn't great because the bed was covered in rose petals, because I had hit some arbitrary age marker beforehand, or because the guy I lost it to became my husband in the parlance of our times: LOL. It was great because it was exactly what I wanted, when I wanted it. I didn't think that I lost anything by having sex at 16; I only saw myself as gaining an entry into the world of mature ish sexuality, which I was excited to explore. But as I got older, I realized that 16 reads as a bit young for sex to many people — they didn't see me as the heroine of my own sexual destiny, but instead as a kid who wasn't old enough to be trusted to make decisions about her body.
My mother checked my hymen, and it’s a trauma akin to rape
Mary gave the letter to a friend, who drove 30 minutes northwest of the house where Mary was staying in the Wisconsin town of Viroqua, past a couple of dirt roads, a string of red barns, and frozen cornfields. He waited until nearly midnight on a cold evening last February, and then put the letter in the mailbox at the white shingled home of Sam Mast, an Amish minister in the community where Mary's family lived during her teenage years. Mary's father was killed in a buggy accident when she was 5; she remembers him pulling her onto his lap and fondling her at their home in the small town of Sugar Grove, Pa. After her father's death, Mary's family moved miles south to New Wilmington, Pa. There, Mary's two older cousins and brothers began molesting her.
The night has always been frightening for me. I did not think my escape from my home-life would be kidnapping and rape on a nightly basis. The thing about trauma and dysfunction is that in many families and cases it does not feel as though it is abnormal for the individual.